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I’ve learned from the past. Not every lesson learned but I did learn one. You must communicate !! It is a MUST !! In the past, I use to “feel” certain ways and I carried those feelings with me and without expressing them verbally … because either they went against the grain or they might hurt his ego (and we can’t have that now can we, smh). So to avoid any disruption in life I would hold onto those feelings, never sharing and always compressing.
Over time; however, these feelings build up and that is a not and never a good place for a woman. Build up is usually accompanied with bitterness, anger, resentment … and now World War 3 is about to happen. And he is looking around like “What jus happened?” (and that dumb look jus pisses you off more, lol)
I have learned … in my new relationship if I am angry I say so and why, if I am happy I say so and why, if I am jealous I say so and why, if I don’t like him nibbling on my ear I say so and why … I don’t hold anything “in” !! I communicate !!
You must communicate the good and the bad. I don’t recommend hurtful or spiteful communication, be tactful (this is the love of your life, right ??) but communicate.
Love never fails but people surely do … we gotta do our part !!
I would absolutely agree with all above mentioned. It is very much important for individuals involved to communicate with one another. Imagine what happens to a soda bottle shaken up with the cap on. Once you open it up (ask what’s the matter) soda spews and sprays all over the place. To rectify that situation you have to ease the bottle open. Let the pressure out little at a time. That’s the communicating aspect. One must ALWAYS remember to ease (communicate) the bottle open.